Hey sprint18; I wrote a response last night and then hit the back button and erased it (****).
I'll try again...
Definately no worries on any perception of attitude... and I hear you loud and clear on emotions conveyed with typing... I really tried to insult / piss someone off at work yesterday and they thought i was kidding... if they coulda seen my face they wouldn't have smiled at all.
I have a 383 in my 17 1/2 foot checkmate.. it weights about 1300 pounds without engine and drive according to mfg's original spec. Balsa cored, padded v-hull and with stern lifting and neutral props is very well mannered well into the 70's (fastest so far is 77 gps and still working on set-up, also going to try a differtent carb and taking the mufflers off here in a week or so. It is making over 400 hp and even more tq. Somewhat mild numbers for a 383, but it's built to run and run hard and last. and it idles down to 500-600 rpm without dying... I spent more than 4k, but it's built with all forged internals and to tight (marine) tolerances, etc...
I'm NOT trying to talk you into a 5.7 - a well built 4.3 will probably make that boat fly and especially if you go with good aluminum manifolds, intake, etc... should be light and nimble, etc... I eard the emi v-6 msanifolds actually flow pretty well. not sure if the longer risers you would need for a cam profile much over stock will bolt on. would really suck to spend a bunch of time and money on an engine only to fill the damn thing up with water...
the nice thing about a smallblock is the availability of a wide range of cheap parts. probably one of things that cinched my thoughts the most. know where you can order a forged steel crank? really strong rods? balanced rotating assembly? blower that'll fit? sure, it is possible, but the options are scarce and expensive - especially once you try and get into more power than is easy with simple head, manifold, carb, etc... as in much over 250 horsepower. I will say that my 4.3 ran really strong and would runw tith or outrun a lot of the guys i know who have (stock) 350s in their boats and that it was clear the factory roller cam was running out well before 5000 rpms. It and the same heads on it as yours touched up a little (wink), a little higher compression (ca. 10:1) an edelbrock performer intake and 600 cfm carb, etc...
lots of people told me I would be unhappy with the result, that it would be uncontrollable, that, blah, blah, blah... it couldn't be further from the truth. It is great! sure, without the trim tabs on it if you give it some gas out of the hole, it'll stand up on end (grin), but if you don't drive like an idiot it handles just fine. My 13 year old daughter can drive it fine.
on the exhaust, couple of things, remember that boat exhaust has water cooling. The volume gas decreases rapidly with cooling - requires less space to get pushed out. Second, the way the prop and drive segment of the exhaust is designed, when you're going fast, there is a low pressure zone created right behind the prop which creates somewhat of a vacuum helping pull the exhaust gasses through the lower portion of the drive and y-pipe, and 3. remember that we're talking about a marine engine. Think of an engine likean air pump, the amount of gas pushed out, is proportional to the speed / rpm of the pump. a lot of the sizing we think about for car engine exhaust is based on hitting say 7,000 or more rpms... you're not going to turn any regular type of marine engine for much over 5000 for long... remember also that the two sides of the exhaust are connected in the y-pipe and so the exhaust pulses alternate between sides... that helps some because it lets the pressure pulses from one side be distributed somewhat into the volume of the other side of the exhaust. all these factors combine to make it a reasonable set-up for near stock small blocks and anything with that horsepower level or below... or at least that's my current understanding... it's really a well designed system.
on firing spaced out evenly... since the distributer turns off the crank, and the engine fires when the rotor passes a plug wire terminal, and the plug wire terminals are evenly spaced out, then the firing is evenly spaced... ever notice how a bone stock small block, like an old beater with the tailpipe off sounds? blah, blah, blah, blah... even and crappy? unless of course way out of tune or have dead / dying cylinders... the lumpy idle for more performance based engines is only from the cam duration / overlap...
hope that's helpful... not an expert, but have some experience learned mainly from breaking things, making mistakes, and once in a while hitting wood on one... have a great one!
sorry bout the book... type too fast for my own good!